I started out cleaning the house. Several days were devoted to yard and garden work. I have trimmed shrubs and trees, cut the grass several times and cleaned the garage and shop. I am now working on "Things I Don't Want To Do" List. But, I must admit, Boredom has set in.
I have recently been challenged with helping with the Grandkids several hours each day. They are here from North Texas while my son and DIL continue to work in the hospitality/dining business. My daughter, the school teacher, has agreed to help them with their homeschooling. I am in charge of vocational training. They have learned to drive the tractor, dig holes in a sand pile, catch lizards and use them for earrings, pee in the yard, plant flowers and tomato plants, drink from the water hose, pressure wash things, and many other outdoor activities.
When I get tired I send them inside to watch TV, play on their iPad, etc. They are very good at this task and can do it all day long. I am not a very good kid sitter and have expressed this to all in earshot. My daughter is excellent. It must be the education training vs. my engineering background.
I do love all of my family and want to be a part of their growth. At my age I'm not very good at tolerating recalcitrant moments. Many years ago when my oldest grandchild was young and we still had a beach house I established "The Rules" for the beach. They have since been expanded. Rules that I try to live by as well. Periodically, I am challenged on my adherence, which I appreciate.
POP'S RULES
1. NO WHINING
2. COWBOY UP (Or Cowgirl Up depending on your gender)
3. NO EXCUSES
4. DON'T SAY YOU CAN'T (A rule that was suggested by youngest granddaughter)
5. DO THE RIGHT THING
6. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
7. ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY
8. DO SOMETHING GOOD
9. BE BETTER EVERY DAY
(The last three have not been introduced to the kiddos yet)
I have even introduced my Girlfriend's daughter to the rules. My experience is that the girls have the most trouble with Number 1.
As we all continue to struggle with this temporary life style of confinement and social distancing, I find that I am constantly challenged to follow the rules my self and compromise my personal Rule #10, "I'm 76 f@#&ing years old, I'll do whatever I want.
This too shall pass. Stay safe my friends.
